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BiPolar Bear
11-05-2009, 01:24 AM
Hey everyone,

First, I'd like to thank Tim (BPGUY) for setting up this forum. There is a real need for those of us with this damned disorder to support each other and to exchange information. So thanks, Tim! :wavey:

My wife and I live in Portland, Oregon. We're three hours - about 180 miles - south of Seattle and about 90 minutes from the Oregon coast. We've been married for 9.5 years and have no kids by choice (unless you count our two cats, which I do), although she has a 27 yr old son from her previous marriage. She's about to turn 50 and I'm 51. I'm an electrical engineer and she is an administrative assistant. My specialty is design of power transmission lines. I work for a large engineering consulting firm, and my wife works for a local electric utility.

I love cars, especially Mazda MX-5 Miatas. I have two of them, and post regularly on miata.net. Tim is active there as well, and he posted a message to let people know about this forum. So that's how I found my way here.

I was diagnosed with BPD over five years ago. As my wife says, she knew something was wrong with me, but never suspected it was BPD. It was quite a shock to both of us, actually. I mean, people with BPD are really crazy, aren't they? :D

Knowing that I was making her life miserable with my behavior was the motivation I needed to start seeing a counselor. The counselor suspected BPD and referred me to a psychiatrist, who confirmed the diagnosis. I've been on Lamiictal ever since, and the change between how I acted before and how I act now is nothing short of amazing. To be sure, I still have an occasional "bipolar day", but it's nowhere near as bad as it was. Not even close.

A couple of years ago I was also diagnosed with ADHD so I'm on ritalin as well. Oh yes, and let's not forget the sleep apnea. Got a CPAP machine a year ago, and now both my wife and I can get a good night's sleep (no more snoring!). Hopefully those are all the disorders I have. If my cars had as many things wrong with them as I seem to have, I'd junk them! :D

Fortunately for me, I have an awesome wife who loves and supports me :Valentine:, so I don't think she's gonna send me to the junkyard just yet. If only I were as trouble-free as my Miatas are!

Anyway, that's a little about me. Next?

Angie
11-05-2009, 04:03 AM
Hello Kevin, Im a Jaguar lover and the cars keep me going, they are an XJ8 and a Mk9 Jaguar, we also have an MGB GT V8 and a Volvo V70 for the spoilt dog.

We dont have any kids by choice too.

BiPolar Bear
11-06-2009, 01:04 AM
Hi Angie! I've been to Hertsfordshire a couple of times. One of my cousins and his family live in Watford. I also have cousins in Manchester, Biggleswade and Cambridge and an aunt in Cliftonville, Kent. We love the UK! Weatherwise, Portland is very similar to England.

Cheers!

Angie
11-18-2009, 05:10 AM
Hi Kevin, You have a lot of family over here. Plenty of excuses to visit then.

We could do with slightly better weather here, at the moment it is just dull, grey, windy and rainy - most days. Cant wait for the summer to come back and hopefully it will be a good one next year.

I dont like the UK at the moment as people are very rude, arrogant and have no respect for others and it is getting worse. I'd love to live somewhere like France where the people are nice and friendly and have time for each other.

One day.... ;)

BiPolar Bear
11-20-2009, 12:33 AM
Hi Kevin, You have a lot of family over here. Plenty of excuses to visit then.

We could do with slightly better weather here, at the moment it is just dull, grey, windy and rainy - most days. Cant wait for the summer to come back and hopefully it will be a good one next year.

I dont like the UK at the moment as people are very rude, arrogant and have no respect for others and it is getting worse. I'd love to live somewhere like France where the people are nice and friendly and have time for each other.

One day.... ;)
France?? The French have a reputation for being rude. Is that just a stereotype?

Arrogant Brits - yes, I can see that. Two of my cousins (the ones in Watford and Biggleswade) are extremely arrogant. Always have been, but they started an IT business in the mid-90s and made a fortune. Now they're just plain insufferable. Makes me happy to be a continent and an ocean apart from them. Not a nice thing to say, I know, but there you have it.

Same kind of weather in Oregon now, but I like rain so it's OK.